Warning: Never Hire This Woman
Kathleen agreed to complete three separate tasks for my daughter's wedding on Aug. 4: 1) collaborate with me in sewing a Temple dress 2) Alter my daughter’s wedding dress 3)Provide alterations for my personal wedding attire.
None of these projects came to fruition. My daughter’s wedding is in one week. Last week, Kathleen disclosed that she had “lost” the temple dress that I delivered to her in early March. This necessitated my purchasing new fabric, and resewing the dress this past weekend. I also relieved her of the responsibility of my own dress which she had not yet touched. This left Kathleen with only the responsibility of the wedding dress.
My daughter lives out of state. In May, she traveled to Denver for an initial fitting with Kathleen. Kathleen envisioned alterations far in excess of what I had anticipated. Reluctantly, I allowed her to dismantle the dress, and purchased $200.00 of replacement lace. In June, Kathleen requested a second fitting, and I flew my daughter to Denver. An hour before our appointment, I received a text stating that she had to accompany a friend to the hospital. Instead of a dress fitting, she would show Melody a “mock up” of her dress. When we arrived, we discovered that she had hastily sewn the skirt of the dress to a ribbon. However, Kathleen still insisted the dress would be ready for my daughter’s bridals on July 14th. Unconvinced, I made myself available to sew alongside of Kathleen on two occasions. Her excuses for lack of progress (documented through texts) included pneumonia, emergency dental surgery, a furious mother of a bride, a friend’s supposed heart attack; a second bout of pneumonia... With each “emergency”, she postponed the time she had reserved to sew for me.
Kathleen scheduled a “semi-final fitting” for the dress on July 14, the day of my daughters’ bridals. When we arrived, the dress was in pieces. Kathleen told us to attend the bridal shower, and the dress would be complete at 4:00. During the shower, I received a text stating that Kathleen had fallen asleep, but the dress would be complete by 5:30. When we arrived at Kathleen’s, we were shocked by her shoddy work. See attached pictures. The skirt was also untouched, with alteration markings all over it. Kathleen suggested she could lend me large safety pins to pin it on for the photo shoot. Of course, the photo shoot had to be canceled. Kathleen brazenly told me, “Put things in perspective. Melody’s wedding is simply an event.”
On July 18, Kathleen informed me that she could not work on the dress again until July 28. On July 21, she had an epiphany. She tearfully apologized, admitting to having abused narcotics for months. She begged for forgiveness, and again vowed to finish the dress.
Kathleen now insists that the dress will be ready for pick up on Saturday July 28. Minimal work has been done. Kathleen has gone silent and failed to give the promised nightly updates on her progress.
Update: Although Kathleen vowed to have the original dress finished and ready for pickup on the Saturday July 28, she texted me on the 27th to say she needed more time and would deliver the dress to me when completed. I replied that I had proactively purchased a completely new dress on July 26th. She apologized to me again and offered to finish the dress after the wedding! I assured her that Melody did not need a second wedding dress. Kathleen then offered me $200.00 in restitution to be paid at some unspecified date when she had the money. I explained that after the cost of purchasing the initial dress, airplane tickets for unprepared fittings, missed bridals, new lace, and replacement fabric to remake the “lost” dress etc., restitution needed to be $2,200. I offered the option of signing a notarized promissory note with payments. She declined my offer and said that she would prefer to go to court.
We celebrated my daughter’s wedding this weekend. It was beautiful, no thanks to Kathleen.