Five months ago I was standing in line at Walmart and out of no where a young woman walked over to me. She looked very lost and frustrated so I asked her if she was OK, at that moment she started to cry. She started telling me that she believes her son has ADHD. At that point I knew I had to tell her my daughter's story because many parents feel alone. She wanted to know how I do I handle the day to day. I just couldn't emphasize enough to her that It's hard on me but it's harder on my daughter. She explained to me that she is afraid her sons doctor won't believe her. I then reached in my bag and handed her an IPS business card. We talked for at least 20 minutes, I made it very clear to her that she is not alone.
As parents our job is to keep trying and keep learning, Many children go through life being labeled "bad" or "trouble maker". When you spank a child with ADHD, you will only frustrate yourself and will make them more angry which will eventually cause them to become depressed. ALL children need love, nurturing and unconditional love.
Today I received a call from a young man. His exact words were "Hi Miss Jackie! I just called to tell you, Thank you!" I replied, You are very welcome, I am glad that you are feeling better. Hearing his voice gave me an instant smile and of course I started to cry. He then went on to inform me that he is one point away from honors. "Miss Jackie you and Armand changed my life". I explained to him that Armand and I love our job and we enjoy helping children and adults.
I now believe that It's true when people say "Everyone who walks in to your life has a purpose". Parents, we need to talk to our children when they are struggling. Don't be afraid to ask their school for help. We need to advocate for our children everyday. Can you imagine sitting in a classroom all day and not learning anything?
I would never send my children to my job if I didn't love my boss. I know first hand that it's not about the money. Armand is a very compassionate man, he doesn't judge anyone but he also doesn't sugar coat anything. Armand and I both know that we can't save everyone but we will damn sure try...If you are respectful, honest and dedicated to treatment then we will jump through hoops to help you succeed.
"If you're not making someone else's life better, then you're wasting your time. Your life will become better by making other lives better" Wil Smith