Until recently, the pediatric emergency room was very good. A couple weeks ago our 2.5 year old son was taken there with a fever. In the triage a nurse by the name Joan Everson began her vitals check with a bad attitude. Our son had not slept well and was sleeping until a few seconds before we needed to place him on a scale - as indtructed by her. As he tried to maintain balance, she told us not to help him. Allegedly, she wanted to check how a two year old walks in pain after a sleepless night. As he began crying in isolation, she attempted to measure his height and hit his head ‘accidentally’ - adding to irritation. As we entered a room to check pulse and temperature, the nurse felt the need to address another child’s cry in the waiting area. She couldn’t understand why a child is crying so long and suggested the father find a solution. Naturally the father was shocked by her attitude. At that point I suspected convinced that this individual, who is supposed to care for ill children of all ages, is probably there due to a staffing error or some force majeure. The nurse then checked our son’s pulse. Next, she wanted to check the temperature and insisted on a rectal, even though no one ever insisted on this method ever before. What happened next probably defined her as a human being. The nurse then told my wife to hold our son and forced my wife’s hands around him so that he doesn’t move. At which point he was already hysterically crying. The nurse then forced the thermometer into him and he screamed in pain. I could not believe my eyes, as my wife’s eyes became teary. It took us about 15 minutes to calm our son down after we left that room. Later on, when the doctor attempted to diagnose the problem, our son would not allow anyone but us near him. This was a serious, dramatic experience for him and he will certainly remember this treatment for a long time. People like Joan Everson should not be working as nurses or treating children.